Empathy

A friend confided me that his wife nagged him for a divorce. This has been going on for quite sometime. They have been married for 7 years and have two kids. I don’t see anything wrong with the man. He is faithful husband and a good man. I asked if he knows the reason why the wife would want to leave him. He told me that he doesn’t really know why because when they talk, she just shouts at him and say so many things that hurt his feeling. He suspected that she is seeing another man. I have never heard him cry until just now. He wished for his life to be shortened thus the end of his misery. This worried me and made my whole day so depressing and gloomy. I didn’t really know what to say to him except asked him to be patience.

Karma~Crap~Nervous~and ReCycle

Karma ~ Say a bad thing and same bad thing befall on you.

Her father suddenly got sick and was hospitalised yesterday. Hmm.. I wonder if she would remember what she’d said about a certain someone when that certain someone was in the same predicament as she is now a few days ago. When I shared how worried and feeling sympathy towards that someone, she said; “Maybe now he will learn to be humble towards other people.” I was taken aback by those words coming out of her mouth. I couldn’t believe that she would say such a thing. And now, she’s in the same boat as that certain someone. I can only shake my head and hope that her father would recover soon.

Crap ~ Initiative squashed like a bug.

Feeling rather crappy today. “Tell me which resort staffs wear uniforms”. Duhh... plenty. If I knew the outcome would be like this, I would rather not give a damn and won’t come up with any initiative to improve the establishment. I suppose I kinda have expected the outcome but I still tried. Crap. You can’t make them wear uniforms? Who runs the show anyway? The employer or the employee? Current mode: Back to not giving a damn.

Nervous ~ New project.

Enveloped with anxiety to start a new project i.e. tailor a male “Baju Raya”. This would actually be the second time that I’ve cut and sewn a male Baju Raya. The first male baju raya that I’ve put together was quite some time ago. A very long time ago. I was hesitant to do it but he has such confidence in me that I feel like I not going to let him down. Nervous but looking forward to complete the challenge.

"Main Kayu Tiga" (Playing with Three Sticks)

Love. You can feel like you’re on top of the world at one time, then feeling at your lowest the next.

Yeah, that’s what happened to her. She’s been married for so long, she forgot what’s like being adored and romanced. We did warn her to prepare for the hurt that will come. We did warn her that it wouldn't last long. She listened but only half heartedly. She just laughed and blew all cautions in the wind. She’s so enamoured with her new found lover, she thought that she could hide her rendezvous from her husband. But unfortunately, the ‘glow’ on her face and the skip in her steps was sensed not only by her friends but by her husband.

Alas, she said her goodbyes to the lover. I’m quite aware of 'that' look she's giving me. She wished to share this latest development with me but I’m not in the mood to listen. She will just have to swallow the lump in her throat and bear it alone.

Update: Apparently, the "goodbyes" was just a pause. From the "imissu" word recently noted in her fb, her face is glowing again. Hahaha.. I'm waiting for more drama.